Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnant with my first child and sister pregnant with fourth at the same time!

9 replies

Imdabest1 · 30/08/2020 01:24

My sister was so livid when she found out i was having a baby even though me and my husband had been trying for ages and suffered a miscarriage, i had gone through depression and finally i recieved the good news im pregnant. When i told my sister you could tell she wasnt happy for me although she did say congratulations. After a while i began to notice she would become bitchy about things and turn my sister against me (fyi the sister shes turning against me is already annoyed and jealous because i married before her). I saw txt messages on my sisters phone slagging me off regarding my baby shower and both making plans and reasons why they shouldnt come. When she found out i was having a boy she became even more bitchy, and jealous. She would write statuses on facebook about me and if i had put up something positive about my pregnancy she would also put a post up straight away or reply with a rude comment. My parents and younger siblings and friends have noticed the way she is being with me. This is not the first time she has been like this with me during my wedding planning she gave birth to her son which we were all excited about however she was annoyed and bitchy because the spotlight wasnt on her as it was my wedding day. I feel she needs constant attention. She even told me she didnt care about my child and only cares about her own family. I think shes quite jealous aswell because her relationship with her partner isnt great (but she keeps having children) where as my husband is my best friend we click and get on so well and she doesnt like it. I have tried to not react to her but im geting to the point where i have had enough of her after what she said about my unborn child i dont even feel like talking to her or her children. Shes so ungreatful aswell like if i brought her children something from hnm she would moan and say why did u get this you should have gone to next. AIBU to just cut her off?

OP posts:
hellymum21 · 30/08/2020 06:58

She sounds horrible!! I think you've done well to put up with her this long. A few years ago I cut some people who only brought drama and negativity to my life. Have honestly never been happier 😁

ImaSababa · 30/08/2020 07:16

Your sister is pathetic. People who use pregnancy to gain attention for themselves make awful parents, in my experience. It's all about them, never the child.

Minimumstandard · 30/08/2020 07:24

I'd cut both of the sisters off who are being difficult with you. It is very, very unreasonable to expect others to plan their lives around yours and be upset because they get married or have children at a time that doesn't suit you.

She even told me she didnt care about my child and only cares about her own family.

Bloody hell...Tell her you care deeply about your nephews/nieces (her children) but you don't really care about her.

custardbear · 30/08/2020 07:26

Goodness they need more to do in their lives! Bored people do this kind of shit

Loubylou9162 · 30/08/2020 07:26

She sounds awful! You don’t need that sort of negativity in your life especially from your sister. Cut her off!

mummmy2017 · 30/08/2020 07:36

Congratulations on the baby.
Please just live your life and accept your sister is jealous.

BeMorePacific · 30/08/2020 08:30

That sounds so horrible, sorry you’re going through that.
She doesn’t sound particularly rational, so I don’t know if speaking to her would help. My advice would be don’t speak to her about your life. Don’t give her ammunition to post about. If she wants to call you that’s fine, just don’t tell her anything.
If you do eventually just distance yourself from her, try and keep in touch with her kids. xx

TheHappyHerbivore · 30/08/2020 09:08

She sounds horrible. I wouldn’t bother with her from now on, she doesn’t seem to be bringing any good to your life.

Imdabest1 · 30/08/2020 10:48

Thank you so much for your advice, they have made my life so difficult since i got engaged. Both sisters had an arguement with me when i was around 20w and when i said to them u should be happy for me after my miscarriage, the sister whose pregnant replied oh this again, like how can you be so heartless. And when i turned to my other sister and said see how horrible that is. And she replied oh i know its i felt like tht when you got married before me. Like for some reason she thinks her not meeting someone and me getting married before her is the same as her loosing a child they are mid 30’s aswell.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread