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Inverted nipples and no milk

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cafedesreves · 21/08/2020 18:28

I have inverted nipples, although they do come out when stimulated. I'm 38 weeks pregnant and am yet to see a single drop of milk in my nipples. I've been trying to hand express but no luck at all. There's a minuscule amount of white discharge but other than that nothing. Is this normal? Should I be speaking to my midwife about this? Any thoughts would be very welcome!

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Foggymist · 21/08/2020 18:31

It's normal for some women to leak before birth, it's also normal for others not to, so don't worry about that side of it at all. I never leaked a drop before birth and have breastfed my dc to 2.5 years each.

Inverted nipples can be difficult to get the latch right with so I would link in with your hospital lactation consultant or a private one to be prepared if you need help after the birth Smile

cafedesreves · 21/08/2020 18:34

Thanks so much Foggymist. That's really reassuring

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starpatch · 21/08/2020 18:35

Yes get some specialist advice as soon as you can. Someone advised me to buy nipple shields for flat nipples so it would be good to get some professional advice now in case you need to order some.

Fungster · 21/08/2020 18:35

I have inverted nipples too and breastfed three children (I think around 5 years in total!)

I used - despite the midwives advising against them - nipple shields from Medela. They are longer teats than my nipples so it was much easier for babies to latch on. Actually I only needed them for the first two - they were completely stretched out by the time number three came along 😄

I had no issue with my supply being compromised either. Just be sure to get the ones with the slight "cut out" so that when nursing, baby's nose touches your skin.

cafedesreves · 21/08/2020 18:41

That's great @Fungster thank you. How do I know if I need small medium or large? Should I go for large to make it easier?

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Fungster · 21/08/2020 18:52

I think I just went with large. I actually cannot remember much about the sizing but take a look at the Medea website, it was really helpful.

Good luck with everything!

cafedesreves · 21/08/2020 19:24

Thanks. I've attempted to measure my nipples with a tape measure 😂 and have ordered a large. Thanks so much for your help

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whitelanner · 21/08/2020 19:36

I have flat nipples. I didn't know a thing about this when I went to give birth. And she couldn't latch on. So I ended up giving formula to her in the hospital. The staff there were too busy to help me properly with the first steps of breastfeeding.

So my advice is to be prepared. Take the shield (as others said). But also take a pump (read the instructions first... I didn't, and it was extremely overwhelming to understand how to pump, once I had a crying newborn on my side) with you, or learn how to hand express before you go in. Take a small spoon or syringe with you as well, that you can express into/onto and you can feed the colostrum to the baby. The first couple of days only a couple drops of colostrum comes out and it is enough for the baby, because it's full of nutrition.

I couldn't breastfeed at the end, as she was lazy to suck and I had very slow flow and even with the shield on, she fell asleep before getting enough and she wasn't happy about it. So I ended up pumping and bottle feed (mix feed, due to low supply). What I found, that after a couple of weeks of pumping, my nipples actually became pronounced. And she did manage to latch on properly. But due to her impatience and my low supply, breastfeeding still didn't work out.

I am only telling you my story, so you know, there are lot of factors... and you may not be able to breastfeed, however hard you try. And it is OKAY. Don't feel guilty or sad. Do your best. Pump if you want to, or feed formula. Fed is best!

I wish someone would have told me these things before I gave birth. I had a terrible first month because of moms guilt and constant crying at the breast.

cafedesreves · 21/08/2020 20:00

That's so helpful, @whitelanner. Thanks for sharing your experience. I'll definitely get out the pump this weekend and have a look. I wish it was easy and they all latched on no problem! But you're absolutely right, in the end you have to do what works for you and your baby.

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YesINameChangeEveryDay · 21/08/2020 20:03

I have quite flat nipples and really struggled to feed my ds. Ended up pumping for him then FF after a few months.
No one ever mentioned nipple shape or size could be an issue with breastfeeding.

I'm pregnant with number 2 now and have bought 4 different types of nipple shield and something called a latch assist that basically temporarily sucks your nipple out so the baby can grab on.

CottonSock · 21/08/2020 20:06

Normal. My nipples are inverted and I managed to bf both my kids. I did need nipple shields in the early days though. And I wont deny there was some initial discomfort

Doyoumind · 21/08/2020 20:10

I also used nipple shields. My nipples did get pulled out a bit more eventually but I managed to keep up feeding way past when most people have stopped using nipple shields. It was something I had worried about for years but it was all fine.

GrumpyHoonMain · 21/08/2020 20:12

I had inverted nipples but they sorted themselves out when my milk came in.

Hopeislost · 22/08/2020 13:17

I had inverted nipples and really struggled with getting my baby to latch on properly. I tried shields but they didn't work for me. What really helped was pumping for a few minutes immediately before feeding. The suction of the pump would pull my nipple out temporarily so baby could latch on.

After a few weeks I found my nipples weren't inverted anymore, and even after stopping breastfeeding they still stick out!

BobGalaxy · 22/08/2020 13:26

I also had flat nipples but ds had a pretty powerful suck and had no problems latching and BF successfully for months. I don't recall seeing any milk before he was born but my milk supply was fine. I remember mentioning to my MW before ds was born that I thought it would be a problem but she wasn't at all concerned, and rightly so as it turned out.

itustiime · 22/08/2020 13:38

I have one inverted, one not - am still breastfeeding 3yr old DS on the one that wasn't inverted as he struggled to latch on. I do wish I had persevered with the inverted one though as I do think he would have latched (he often did, it just wasn't as easy)

I did have back up formula in though, just in case as I found it quite stressful in the first few days

cafedesreves · 22/08/2020 15:49

Thanks so much everyone

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