I've seen the aneasthetist today at 35 weeks and due to previous back surgery I will need to have a general aneasthetic and be put to sleep for a cesarean. She told me that my partner would have to leave once I leave the recovery room, which could be within the hour of baby being born. I am so scared I wont be able to look after baby on my own while I'm recovering from a general as well as the surgery as last time I had a general I was extremely sleepy and unable to think properly. I feel like having to deal with the fact that I have to have a general is bad enough, let alone the added factor that my partner cant be there to help. I know the midwifes/health care assistants are there, but they're not going to cuddle baby and look after him like his dad would. Apparently the minimum we would be in hospital for after a general is 3 days.
I'm really hoping someone can help me to feel more positive about this.