Hi everyone! I have been with my partner for almost two years. We both have children, his is 15 and mine is 11. We have been having some significant stress from my 11 year old but we are committed to each other.
Last night we had sex and he said he wanted to come inside me. He asked if I was ovulating, and I said "no". Today I thought about it in a sober state of mind, and it turns out that I could ovulate any time due to my irregular cycle. He gave me his credit card and told me to go buy a Plan B.
I didn't take it but I said that I did. I wanted to have a baby very strongly earlier this year, but gave the idea up when he was 100% not into the idea.
Do you think it's ethical, right, or wrong to not take the pill? I would admit that I didn't take it, but it would cause significant stress.
He says that if we have a baby, he doesn't think it would be good for us. I still have this desire, and it is my body. We can afford to support the child and a comfortable lifestyle.