Thank you so much for the info. The breastfeeding really bothers me as I really struggled with DS and had to combi feed as could never get my supply up... But it was a very long slow labour, we were both exhausted, I had 3 hours of surgery straight after so missed that first bit of skin to skin, and I lost a fair amount of blood, so your posts give me hope that with a slightly more relaxed start, even if it's early, and the chance for skin to skin straight away that it could work out ok.
@Heydugeemummy Jeez, stressful. I think after all the misinformation and confusion it's definitely a good shout to have them triple check it! I don't really ask much in the scans and wait for the Dr appointment after, but think I'll be asking the monographer to check the measurement and check again! Glad everything worked out ok for you.
@Harriedharriet Yes I think from reading just the RCOG website I've freaked myself out a bit. I have slowed down, and my private scan last week confirmed it was low so I'm prepping myself for an early section. I'll be pleased if it does miraculously move, but I think at this stage it's much less likely. I was already anxious in this pregnancy after a miscarriage late last year, so it hasn't been the happiest time! But at least I'm prepared now and feel that if I'm careful (I also live a 5 minute drive from the hospital) then fingers crossed we'll both be ok.
@Eslteacher06 Thank you for all the info. I'm not actually too bothered about not having my husband in the ward after (no offence to him!) I'd rather he was with our son really, I've never left him before, he'll be fine with my parents but nicer to have his dad home. I'm also super lucky in that his paternity leave is very generous so I will get the chance to rest properly afterwards and recover. I'm quite scared of a section and the wound etc, so hoping that, with proper rest and support it hopefully won't be too bad.
Thanks all, I really appreciate the stories and the reassurance. I'm still keeping everything crossed it moves enough by next week, but also feel that I'm ok with it not and feel a little more in control of what might happen. Plus the private scan showed baby has moved from transverse to head down, which makes the section (if needed) more straightforward thankfully.