Does anyone else relate?

[SadAndPregnant]

I'm so sad. I'm not entirely sure why but I'm sure that I'd rather they take out my unborn son and let me die. Give him a chance at least.

I'm so unhappy with who I am, what I think, how I feel, what I look like.

I can't burden anyone with this because it's a horrific thought.

Does anybody else have any idea what this thought process is like?

So sorry your feeling this way.
Please know this is temporary, you won’t always feel this way.
I really urge you to call your gp on Monday and tell them exactly how you’re feeling.
You do need help. Your baby loves you above anyone else on the world. They want and need you here.
Do you have a partner or family/friend you can speak to?
I really hope you’ll be ok. You can get through these feelings. But don’t be afraid of asking for help x

Exactly what the above poster said 👏🏻 @SadAndPregnant did you have these feelings before you was pregnant or only since you’ve been pregnant? The reason I ask is that pregnancy can do very strange things to our minds and emotions. Nobody tells you about the ‘ugly’ part of pregnancy it’s all sold to you with pretty frills 🙈 however almost every pregnant woman I know has been through this at some sort of level. I know I definitely did with my first and in fact even before I was pregnant or had children. Please don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for help even if it’s explaining to your GP how you feel, there is so much help out there and I can promise you, you will feel 100% better for doing it. I know when I go through stages of depression and anxiety I find it easier to talk to strangers rather than my friends and family. By the way you may not know if but you already sound like a fantastic mummy, having these worries for your son before he’s even born. Please don’t ever feel alone there are so many woman out there who have experienced what you are feeling or are currently experiencing it xx