Hi Popi,
My niece had partial pa at 31 wks last year, and sadly our little lady was born sleeping so I know exactly where you are coming from. I am so sorry for your loss.
My niece is now 30 wks with next baby and has been admitted to hosp today to stay for 2 wks to be monitored, and for peace of mind really. They are planning on inducing at 38wks, but my niece has mixed feelings about induction, as I do.
I know it may seem very frightening, but you have to remember that a section is a major operation, not to be taken lightly. You are under absolutely no obligation to be induced at any time, and after a certain point, you can asked to be monitored daily at the hosp. You have done very well to progress this far this time, and as you said, everything is fine. If the risk is 10% of it happening again, that's a whopping 90% it doesn't.
Who have you got for non medical support? Is dp supportive of your concerns about induction? It's a worrying time for you, but labour doesn't have to be terrifying, after what you went through last time, you need a relaxing, calm labour, which will lead to a trouble free birth.
I am a birth Doula, and I know that a relaxed mother will help in all aspects of your labour and birth. You need to feel confident in the choices that you make, and they have to be right for you, and your family and situation.
36wks is very early to be induced. If they are adamant, you could possibly ask that they wait until 38wks?
HTH, Please try not to get too worked up about it, It's your baby, your choice. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything.
Sending big hugs. x