Hi all,
Hoping you can share experiences or offer some advise.
I’m currently 5 days overdue, today when I got up there was something different about babies movements, I could feel them but nowhere near what we usually have in a morning. I called my maternity triage and explained this and the lady was lovely said it’s best just to get checked but they sent me to the antenatal day unit at my local hospital not where I’ll be giving birth as they don’t have that facility there no more (they closed it due to midwife shortage) it was honestly the worst experience ever, the midwife made me feel silly for coming in and I explained I had originally phoned for advise. Then I was talking about the birth centre at my hospital and she told me I won’t be giving birth there now was I’m now a high risk pregnancy due to this been my 3rd episode of reduced movement. I have been in previously at 28 weeks and 34, both time’s as soon as they put the monitor on baby has been active as anything, but the Midwife’s have been lovely about it.
In my opinion and I’d never put my baby at risk, I’m not a high risk pregnancy, everything has been absolutely fine and I feel a little down that now I’ve asked for advise and been asked to go in today I’m now not allowed to be on the MLU (even though it’s attached to labour ward) and I can’t have a water birth. What are my rights here? Can I contest it as such. I think it’s a little mad I made it clear that I had felt baby move but it was different but not sure if this is cause I’m 5 days overdue etc etc it’s my first baby so if anything I was over cautious.
The whole experience this morning has really upset me, she wasn’t a personable midwife at all and I honestly feel so down about it.
Sorry for the essay! X