2nd pregnancy

[Miss2820]

Hi ladies

When I was pregnant with my first I was so happy literally over the moon my mood was happy hardly felt down etc but this time around I just feel really down hardly excited just feeling like normal.. I Duno wether it’s because I thought my husband would be more helpful around the house etc he’s actually quite lazy just works from
Home and then does his own thing after he finishes, I do all the cooking tidying up keeping my Daughter entertained working from
Home aswell part time, I just feel all he does is wake up do his work and chill and anything else doesn’t really matter it’s like he doesn’t even think oh maybe she might need some help, if his friends say come meet us at the pub he woudnt hesitate twice to quickly drop everything and go. I just get worried when the baby actually arrives what is it gnna b like ? Am I still gnna be doing everything I just find it unfair and then when I say anything it’s like don’t make out like I don’t do anything and then referees to how he pays the bills??? I just don’t get it

[user1465146157]

Have you said how you're feeling? Maybe he doesn't know?

if he does know and is still being this way - you should reiterate that you're pregnant and can't do everything. It's hard during lockdown as well I know.

Hope things get better