Hi,
Similar dilemma but for Crohn’s rather than endometriosis.
I’ve never had abdominal surgery, so state of adhesions is unknown.
My big fear is a bad tear which will affect future continence (which can already be close to problematic during a flare up of disease).
The way I see it as someone who through work has been involved in a lot of sections...
A “normal vaginal birth” is your “gold standard” -
But is a retrospective thing. 1/3 will end up with a section, a similar number an instrumental and even those who deliver unassisted, a good number will have a tear/episiotomy. So not many will avoid some degree of pelvic floor issue.
An emergency section carries with it uncertainty -
Operator - whilst someone who can do a section, they may be less experienced and Sod’s law says it will be the middle of the night. Time to carefully divide the tissue planes is reduced if there is fetal compromise so there is a greater risk of bowel/bladder injury than with an elective.
However there is no disputing that an elective section is a major abdominal procedure and potentially an unnecessary one - and may cause future problems in terms of adhesions.
But there are other advantages including the ability to plan for it (though could still labour early). Not having laboured for hours before getting to the point of section. Recovery generally better from elective then emergency. Providing all goes well, I think you could be home quicker than if need an induction.... which in these times of coronavirus is relevant.
So all in all, I’m planning an elective section. If I go into spontaneous labour beforehand, I may give it a go but would request a section at the slightest hint of poor progression.
(Disclaimer - being medical is difficult when it comes to making these decisions as knowledge and experience of dealing with the abnormal can’t be forgotten.... and I don’t see the lovely, normal deliveries so experience skewed towards the problematic)