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12 week scan today- feeling apprehensive

23 replies

Char2020 · 22/05/2020 07:59

Hi all

I have my 12 week scan at half 9 and am feeling very apprehensive about it, I’ve been here before and found out that I had a mmc at my last 12 week scan. It wasn’t a total shock as I had a feeling something was wrong the day before but the feelings of loss were awful. This time round I’m feeling good, all symptoms are still there and I don’t have any negative feelings like there may be anything wrong but I’m just so worried this will happen again and not sure how I would cope getting through it all again. I’m a very strong person emotionally and can deal with pretty much anything but losing a baby is traumatic to say the least, I’m just not sure I would cope doing it again.

I’m not even sure why I’m writing this I think I just need to let it out xx

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NannyGR · 22/05/2020 08:09

Just wanted to say good luck, I hope everything goes well for you today xx

Chanel05 · 22/05/2020 08:10

Good luck for today, wishing you all the best for a great scan today. I've been there with a mmc and the scanxiety is awful after. I'm 23+3 now and I still have moments of anxiety every couple of days!

Longfox · 22/05/2020 08:12

It's so hard not to worry. I had a mmc in June last year, and like you, I knew something wasn't quite right and it was confirmed at the 12 week scan. I am now 36 weeks pregnant, and I remember the 12 week scan like it was yesterday, although this pregnancy felt fine, I was still panicking. Lots of deep breaths, wishing you a successful scan 😊

Wolfiefan · 22/05/2020 08:13

Oh good luck. My first pg was a mmc. It was awful. My second pg is now nearly 17!

milney25 · 22/05/2020 08:17

Hope everything goes OK, 9.30 will come around in no time xx

Diorissimo1985 · 22/05/2020 08:19

Good luck OP Flowers

Lavenderpurple · 22/05/2020 08:22

Hope it goes well, I was you on Wednesday so totally understand how you feel. Wishing you luck Smile

pottypotamus · 22/05/2020 09:19

Wishing you all the best OP 💕 xx

London91 · 22/05/2020 09:44

Best of luck OP! Let us know how you get on.
Flowers

Char2020 · 22/05/2020 11:09

Thanks so much for all your replies. The scan went very well. All is good wiggle away nicely. I couldn’t be happier. They dated me at 13+2 which is a lot further than I expected.

12 week scan today- feeling apprehensive
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Wolfiefan · 22/05/2020 11:28

Oh I’m so very very pleased for you!! That’s brilliant news.

newmumtobe66 · 22/05/2020 11:46

Brilliant news!

Diorissimo1985 · 22/05/2020 12:03

Fab news!! So pleased for you

toomuchteaandcake · 22/05/2020 12:14

And a gorgeous scan pic too 🥰

pottypotamus · 22/05/2020 12:42

Amazing news 🥰

Mucklowe · 22/05/2020 12:43

Yay! That's a lovely scan pic.

London91 · 22/05/2020 13:06

Brilliant news! Congratulations!

SparkyBlue · 22/05/2020 13:07

Lovely news

Chanel05 · 22/05/2020 14:44

Great news!

Char2020 · 22/05/2020 14:49

Thanks all much appreciated Smile x

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Smushty14 · 22/05/2020 15:00

Great news!!! Grin

Pinkpepper9 · 22/05/2020 16:33

Congrats!!! Isn’t it a relief!!!

NEAKT5 · 22/05/2020 19:16

Congratulations what a great scan! FlowersI was in the same position as you however luckily our hospital let us have 2 early scans with this pregnancy which really helped (39 weeks now) but I still felt anxious about going back to the same part of the hospital where we found out at the first pregnancy 12 week scan about the MMC. I also for some reason felt that we maybe wouldn’t get good news, it’s strange how we know!

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