FTM I'm 21 weeks and since a week ago i have started to have some back pains but it's very strange because the painful area is just at the top of the buttocks/last vertebra of the spine.
Initially i thought it's because of my desk chair (it's a new one and it's surface felt like concrete) but i changed the chair and i still get the pains.
Unfortunately my work agenda is very busy and I'm stuck to my desk all morning until my lunch break and then again all afternoon until i finish work and can't do much stretching or move away from desk.
I haven't mentioned it to my midwife yet as my next phone appointment with her is in 4 weeks time but if the pain persists or gets worse that it is can i be signed off work?
I have a strong work ethic and in my whole long career i don't think I've been off on more then 3-4 occasions and i would feel awkward and embarrassed to ask my dr for time off.
I don't want to let my team down but if i am in i have to give at least 100% and now it's painful even when I sit on my sofa.