Feeling sad that I might be mis-carrying again

[Naji]

Hi, I haven't told anyone I'm pregnant apart from my hubby and so I feel like I don't have anyone else to talk to. I am 7w4d pregnant according to my calendar. For the past 4 weeks I've had terrible nausea and vomiting but this morning I've woken up with a very noticeable sharp pain in the middle of my lower back and all my symptoms have disappeared.
I'm really worried I'm starting to mis-carry? Am I? I can't even call my GP (as they're closed over the weekend) and just called the midwife team but no one answered.

I have two girls already and I am so thankful for that as I know not everyone is as lucky. But we've been trying for no3 for a couple of years now. I had a MMC about 18 months ago, from the onset the midwives knew that something wasn't right and at the 7 week scan told me that I would mis-carry and 2 weeks later I did.

I feel really sad that it could be happening again. Am I over reacting?

I would be grateful for any advice x

I don’t have any advice but am in a similar position and it’s just awful. Last year at 11wks I had the tiniest of bleeding and when was scanned at EPU they found there to be a baby measuring 5wks4days with heartbeat but I knew dates could not be so far out and as I feared almost a week later I miscarried.

That was last Sept and currently I am 10+5 according to my dates and since Thursday have had bits of brown mucus when I go to toilet. I am totally feeling the worst is happening and it’s heartbreaking. I just don’t understand why. Haven’t worked in my present job too long so worried about impact of that too as I want to keep making good impression.

I too have 2 DC already and my partner has 1 so we are lucky we just wanted a little one to bring up together and bring our little family together. I’m nearly 37 too so feel time is against us and most probably the reason for things going wrong.

I hope your symptoms going is just nature giving you a break I wish you all the best.

@alphabetti thank you, I'm glad I'm not alone in this. It is just awful isn't it. I am 38 so I also feel time isn't on our side. I hope your symptoms pass and everything is ok for you. Wishing you all the best too x