I feel like I owe this to a lot of people on this site to share my story as reading a lot of threads while I was going through this, made me realise what was happening i could connect to other people’s symptoms and made me not feel alone so thank you all mumsnetters.
Firstly I found out I was pregnant 12th April 2020 an exciting time had been trying for 6 month my symptoms were painful breasts.
By 17th of April I felt butterflies twice but then after this date I didn’t feel a thing I didn’t feel the pregnancy was progressing
23rd April I had a slight bit of spotting after sex but nothing major but I was concerned as I still had no sickness I started to contact doctor explaining I wasn’t happy... I was going to be offered an early scan but because of coronavirus I was told even if I was miscarrying it was not an emergency to have be allowed a scan.
Soon after started to get some form of sickness which started to reassure me this then lasted 3 days
Then my sickness disappeared for 3 days I assumed my body was giving me rest bite but my breasts were sore almost everyday through this
30th April-I had brown spotting when I wiped called 111 (it was late at night) was reassured this was normal
2nd of April-I had more brown spotting which had got heavier called 111 again (once again out of docs hours) begged to go to hospital.
Went to hospital due to virus I had to go in on my own sat in a&e and cried my heart out it. Gyno then took me to a ward checked my cervix and reassured me they were then shut so went home.
3rd of May I couldn’t be bothered to get out of Bed then when I eventually did I started passing clots Bright red blood I called the hospital which said this was completely normal and because I wasn’t having serious cramping it was normal in early pregnancy my partner was believing it but I kept telling him it wasn’t right this was not okay I begged to be scanned and because I was so distressed I was allowed one
4th of May went for my scan was supposed to be almost 8 weeks pregnant. They couldn’t find a thing there was no baby on external/internal scans but from my bloods I finally had a phone call to say my levels had dropped and that I had yes gone through a miscarriage at home.
Mums I feel we have a sense I knew weeks ago I didn’t feel something was quite right and I felt this was important to put my story out there... please feel free to ask any questions I want to help people through these times x
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tanit20088 · 05/05/2020 09:21
@tanit20088 - that’s such a shame that you had such a difficult time with the hospital, I guess different areas are experiencing different pressures due to Covid-19.
I feel lucky as I rang the early pregnancy assesment unit on the Sunday night who transferred me to emergency gynae dept. They booked me in for a scan at 9am the next day which Im so grateful for as we weren’t left hanging, not knowing as you were. I’m so sorry you had to go through that - especially with everything else that’s going on.
I have to go back on Monday for a follow up scan (the hospitals policy) , dreading having to even go into the hospital alone again but feel like it will help me as part of the grieving process.
Sorry I have hijacked your post - it’s just so nice to share this with someone who has been through the same thing , thank you 
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@Milkshake54 - how uncanny...my situation sounds similar to yours. I too had an MMC but in late November. Like you, I had a feeling things weren’t right hence I booked in a scan at what should’ve been 8+2 but it showed baby stopped at 6+3.
We conceived on my 3rd cycle and I’m currently 6+2 so I’m slightly ahead of you. We’re are perfect strangers in sync! Although I’ve been feeling terrified this time around. I'm glad you are feeling positive. 
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