I am 17 weeks pregnant with non-identical twin boys. At the 12 week scan one of them had a small cystic hygroma on its neck which was still present at 14 weeks. I was referred to a Fetal Medicine Unit where they confirmed baby had a small hygroma.
The three outcomes were presented to me; baby has a chromosome problem, baby has a problem with a major organ, it may resolve and be fine. I was told that having an amniocentesis now would carry a small risk to both babies so I have opted to wait until 32 weeks to have it as I don't want to put either baby at risk. However I don't know what is worse, not knowing now is really difficult. Me and my husband fight about stuff all the time as he is trying to plan for two babies and I am telling him I just don't know if we will be lucky enough to bring them both home. For example he wants to buy a new car and my head just isn't in that place at the moment
I am trying to be as positive as possible however sometimes it helps me to be prepared for the worst. I am finding it really hard to enjoy this pregnancy and feel I am constantly thinking about the twin with the hygroma. I already feel guilty for not relishing in the fact we have one healthy baby boy inside me.
Has anybody experienced anything similar?