I'm due to have my first baby in 7 weeks and have been thinking a lot about a birth plan. Originally I said I was very flexible so wouldn't be writing one, for example I'm reading lots of hypnobirthing stuff but have no idea if I'll be warrior or wimp so I'm not ruling out pain relief, I don't feel it necessary to put that pressure on myself as I've never experienced it before!
However as it gets closer I'm feeling more passionate about certain things, for example I really only want delayed cord clamping and was told by a friend this is best practice in most hospitals now anyway, is this the case?
Also, I absolutely don't want injections and cord traction to deliver the placenta and would prefer to try and wait for it to come away, for various reasons I'm worried about excessive bleeding. I'm giving birth at St Mary's Manchester, does anyone know what happens with this?
Sorry if I sound a bit clueless but I feel a little stranded as I'm not having midwife appointments etc anymore, just doctors appointments at the Mavis clinic at the hospital so am a bit lost.