Hey everyone,
I am here as I need a bit of reassurance. I just feel like the past two weeks have taken all the joy out of being pregnant.
So at my 20 week scan the sonographer sent me on my way and said that by baby boy has a bit of fluid in his kidneys but it's not a big worry it's just a case that he might need a few more scans to check on them. As I have a 2 valve cord she said I may need growth scans anyway. She took ages looking at his heart. He's a wriggler so it can be difficult to see. In the end she sent me off and just told me to mention the findings to the midwife at my next appointment but that she was not worried.
Well she had me a bit worried so I booked a private scan with window to the womb. She said the kidney issue is fairly normal for boys but that the fluid levels are borderline and this should have been referred as he may need more scans and a his kidneys looked at when born. But she also said the right side of his heart looks enlarged but she's not 100 per cent sure if it's just the way he's lying. She sent the video to their lead sonographer and she thinks something may be wrong but if it is they seem to think it's a small abnormality. She went as far as to say I should formally complain about the first sonographer. My husband thinks she is worrying us unduly as the 20 week scan sonographer looked at his heart for a long time before saying she was happy.
I feel like all the joy has been taken away from pregnancy to be honest and I just want it over with now. And I cant help but worry about the finding will be with the fetal cardiologist.
Has anyone any similar experiences? How did you get on?