Why are people so judgemental? I understand these are scary times I for one am so scared of this virus. However I will be 31 weeks pregnant on monday and have a midwife appointment on Tuesday. My husband is a bus driver so has to work and it will be his first day back as he was on furlough for 3 weeks (his company are furloughing 50% of staff for 3 weeks then rotate until the lockdown ends) so obviously he can't stay at home with our other 2 children whilst I attend the appointment . My mum who doesn't live with us but has self isolated since the lockdown was announced especially for incase there was to be an emergency is going to come round to sit with my 2 kids whilst I attend my midwife appointment as obviously can't take kids to the appointment with me. Someone asked me about my appointments and when I told then the above they have given me massive verbal abuse for breaking lockdown rules. Thing is when i do go.in to labour my husband is my birth partner and my mum will be having my 2 children whilst he is with me so if lockdown is still on no doubt I'll be made out to be awful again. I was told by my midwife when all this started that this is absolutely fine as other than my appointments and eventual labour my mum doesnt leave her house and neither do me and kids and hopefully if baby is on time and lockdown still on hubby will be back on 3 weeks furlough so bonus. Think what I'm asking is am I the awful person this lady has made me out to be ?