Hi everyone,
I don’t know if anyone will be able to advise on this one or not. I did ask my midwife yesterday and she gave a non committal answer and said we’d cross that bridge when we get to it (fair enough!).
I’m 34 weeks pregnant with my second daughter, and struggling terribly with pelvic girdle pain. My partner needs to help me to the bathroom at night, I am in a lot of pain turning over in bed, getting on and off the sofa, walking past midday etc. At the moment, the pain is manageable. I’m taking regular pain medication and just need to be very careful about limiting my activity, accepting as much help off my partner as possible and not doing too much with our 1 year old. However, I’m aware that potentially I could have another 8 weeks to go! I personally feel, having done some quite extensive research online, that my best option is to get induced once I reach full term, or maybe early term depending on how badly I am struggling. I’m very anxious about how I’ll give birth given how difficult I’m finding it to move around all ready, and lying on my back is becoming impossible.
I fully understand all the reasons that normally, they don’t recommend induction due to PGP, but none of these really apply due to the current situation. The physio centres have all shut, and even the online support I was told I’d receive 3 weeks ago hasn’t materialised. I’ve chased up with my midwife and she says she believes the staff have been moved to help with covid19, so at the moment I cannot receive any physio or help with managing the SPD. I also know that they often don’t want to induce because it can lead to more intervention, means I’m less mobile during labour anyway etc but honestly, I think the only thing that’s making my SPD considerably worse is time, and the longer that baby is in there!
I suffered with PGP quite badly last pregnancy too, however not as badly as this. My waters broke at 34 weeks with my daughter and I had to be induced as labour didn’t start automatically. I had a very positive induction experience, she was born within 4 hours of the pitocin drip being started and I had an epidural fitted at the same time which allowed me to labour without feeling my pelvic pains. Last time I was very fortunate that my pain completely stopped the minute my daughter was born.
So yes, after that waffle, I basically want to ask whether you think I might be able to push for an induction, if I feel it’s necessary, at full term if I’m still unable to access any support in managing the SPD?
I’m really hoping that none of this will be necessary anyway. But looking at how much worse the pain is today, from even a week ago doesn’t give me much hope of that.