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Anyone else had any silly meltdowns?

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MrsERWor · 05/04/2020 18:25

So, I'm 7 weeks pregnant tomorrow with my first child. I'm experiencing all of the normal symptoms (sore boobs, nausea, fatigue)... but today, I had my first melt down. I'm usually a pretty chill person (I'm the friend that gives all my friends the "come on now, be sensible and calm" pep talks).

I left the house for the first time in a week to do the food shop (scary enough as it is). I live on a street where parking is a bit of a pain and when I got back from the shop, all the parking spaces were gone. I could feel myself going (rage and frustration), I phoned my husband for help to get the stuff in and to stress about where on Earth I'm going to park. He didn't answer and the phone rang and rang... stress and anger building by the second. He finally answered, I snapped and he got moody with me.
After he took the main bulk of the shopping in, I just sat in the car and cried for 10 minutes - so pathetic and SO unlike me!

Then, after I dragged my emotional arse out of the car to grab the last bits out of the boot (a case of beer for DH and a bouquet of flowers to bring some joy), I got inside the front door and the box of beer gave way and smashed all over the floor. What a disaster. The water works were back. It's been a couple of hours since my meltdown and I'm just exhausted now.

This is the first time since being pregnant external stresses have been able to impact my emotions - before now, I've been safe in the confines of my home where nothing can really go wrong.

Is it just me who feels like their pregnancy has turned them into an emotional mad woman? Or are any of you also feeling/having out of character emotions/breakdowns?

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user1493413286 · 05/04/2020 18:29

I remember crying because something I cooked had gone wrong; not even inedible but just not how I wanted it. My DH fairly quickly learnt not to take offence when I got snappy with him; something that has been quite helpful since my DS was born a few weeks ago and I’m still quite emotional and sleep deprived.

lockdownpregnancy · 05/04/2020 18:32

Trust me when I say you really are not the only one!
Full on meltdowns right here!
Crying for no reason, panic attacks, the lot!
I watched a tv programme the other week and sobbed and it wasn't even that emotional! I'm 15 weeks and still going strong! 😝
Hormones are a bitch! Enjoy! 😂😂😂

mummyje20 · 05/04/2020 18:43

I'm 33 weeks and can tell you it doesn't get better Grin but it becomes something to laugh at!
I'm anxious and cry at cute adverts, I dropped something out of the cupboard the other day and burst into tears (my dp looked at me like I'd actually lost my shit)

sel2223 · 05/04/2020 18:52

I'm 20+3 and have had 2 epic meltdowns (so far). I'm also ridiculously emotional and literally cry at everything now which is the opposite to how I normally am!
I've even woke myself up crying a couple of times for no reason whatsoever!

Littlegoth · 05/04/2020 19:01

14 weeks here. In week 8 my dp switched the light bedroom light on 9 minutes into my 10 minute alarm ‘snooze’.

I was devastated and cried for quarter of an hour because he ‘stole my minute’.

That’s the only one so far really!

Rebecca612 · 05/04/2020 19:08

I cried because baby Yoda made a cute noise in a show we were watching last night. I then cried again because he was sleeping. My hormones have been pretty good overall but when my poor husband tells me not to take more than one shopping bag from the car then I get all snappy - muttering to myself, ‘I’m not incapable, I can bloody do it’. Then we learn I can’t do it Smile

rhowton · 05/04/2020 19:10

I cried in the wine aisle as I really wanted to drink it but couldn't. I was full on sobbing whilst my husband apologised to everyone around us and explained I was pregnant.

BeautyAndTheBump1 · 05/04/2020 19:17

I took my crumpets out the toaster and dropped one in the sink. I threw myself on the floor and sobbed hysterically for 10 minutes 😂 it's my favourite breakdown yet. I have had many though 😂

SomeoneElseEntirelyNow · 05/04/2020 19:21

At about 35 weeks my brain officially turned to mush.

I spent ten minutes in the living room staring at the coffee table because i had forgotten the word for it. Then i remembered its called a "table". I then cried for 20 minutes and when my husband laughed at me i tried to sleep in the spare room, and then cried because there was no one to cuddle me.

FeelingBeautiful · 05/04/2020 19:43

every damn day

Nelbert19 · 05/04/2020 19:48

I cried at a park bench because someone had left flowers on it and the plaque said the person it was dedicated to had died in 2011 and I thought it was lovely they were still remembered

I also cried because I couldn’t find my slippers

Husband just nods along to my erratic moods now and agrees with whatever I’m saying whilst throwing food at me. He’ll survive.

lockdownpregnancy · 05/04/2020 19:51

Ladies! I'm literally in hysterics reading these! It's so reassuring to know my meltdowns are just as pathetic as the rest of yours! 😂😂
I'm only 15 weeks so I can't wait to see what the next 25 are like! Haha!!! 😝😝

Married2019 · 05/04/2020 20:11

I just cried because the Queen made her speech. Tried to explain why to my husband but i don't really understand why myself 😭😭

lockdownpregnancy · 05/04/2020 20:17

Oh my god @Married2019 so did I!!
It was the World War 2 phrase, she used "we'll meet again" at the end that got me! l
Just sobbed! 😭😭😭
I need help!!😝😝😝

FirstTimeBumps · 05/04/2020 21:10

Last time I had a meltdown in work because someone didn't clean the microwave and I left a sign on it saying please clean and came in the next day and someone had written "in the time it took you to make this sign you could have cleaned it yourself" - I was raging which tbh I think anger was justified, just my level was not. I came marching to reception with the sign screeching who did this. I also had a massive meltdown because my part era son set his alarm for 6am and then didn't get up for it and just let it go on and on and on. Woke the whole house up. I was only about 12 weeks then as well but I was livid because this was the last decent sleep I was going to get before the baby came? I took myself off to a nice restaurant and treated myself to breakfast by myself to calm down.

I don't really cry but I just get angry. I'm now 11 weeks with #2 and have learnt it's better out than in and am reagularly grumbling and screeching, my OH has accepted it's a normal part of life now. He did comment the other day that the neighbours could probably hear me but then he realised I didn't care so?

CoolNoMore · 05/04/2020 21:54

Some of these are spectacular.

In my first pregnancy I absolutely sobbed because my takeaway arrived with prawns instead of chicken. I like prawns... OH gently suggested that maybe this was due to me feeling a general lack of control rather than fear and loathing of prawns, to which I sobbed 'BUT I WANTED CHIIICKEEEEN! sob sob sob

LexiM · 05/04/2020 21:59

Really enjoying these and reading them to my DH to justify my behaviour 🤣

Itwasgoodwhileitlasted · 05/04/2020 22:07

Yup. In hindsight it might have been pmt! Just gotta let these moments go. Stressful times n all...my kids on the other hand have been tolerant little angels Halo

rhowton · 05/04/2020 22:16

Oh husband also got a pay rise but none of my family understood what I was saying because apparently "monetary promotion" doesn't make much sense but they were my only words.... I literally cried with frustration until DH realised what I was trying to say...

Meadows89 · 05/04/2020 22:48

Perfectly normal - if you hadn't cried, I would think there was something wrong with youGrin

The most spectacular meltdown I had was the day after we moved into our new house and OH had lost the garage door keys. I was snappy that he was stressing about something so silly. He then rolled his eyes at me. Q me screaming at him, throwing a suitcase down the stairs for him to pack and leave (his clothes were already put away upstairs) and then me proceeding to cry hysterically because I couldn't understand why I was so angry and panicking he'd actually leave me at 15 weeks pregnant. Bless my OH as he just stood there and took it all, then bear hugged me until I stopped crying. Even made me a cup of tea after Halo

I've found it hasn't necessarily got better but I calm down a lot quicker now as I know it's not really me and it'll pass :)

MrsRose2018 · 05/04/2020 22:51

My mum made my dinner one night and it tasted SO GOOD that I cried... x

MrsRose2018 · 05/04/2020 22:51

P.s I’m 30... and married x

MrsERWor · 06/04/2020 09:00

Well ladies... your responses were EXACTLY what I needed! Lots of laughter, but also relief!! I'll keep you all posted if I have any more ridiculous episodes in future - please so the same. 😂 we can all laugh about them together.
THANK YOU!

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lockdownpregnancy · 06/04/2020 13:07

Ladies! Given the current situation and any of us on lockdown, I think we need to keep this thread going just so we have something to laugh about!

Littlegoth · 07/04/2020 15:13

Spoke too soon.

Adding:

sobbing hysterically at ‘do you want to build a snowman’ because I don’t even know why.

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