Sorry this is a bit long-winded! Was hoping for some advice?!
Dd is one year old TOMORROW - hoorah! We've had a great year but the pregnancy was crap - and made even crappier by my treatment following a diagnosis of grade 4 placenta praevia at 32 weeks.
I'll try to be short so you get the idea of what my complain is about: Was told I might have low-lying plac so was sent for extra scan at 32 weeks. BTW I had had no bleeding at all. Sonographer very brusque and she said "oh yes, it IS placenta praevia" I didn't know much about it at the time but remembered my midw had mentioned you had to have a c-section. Asked the sonog. this and she said "I'm not prepared to discuss you condition with you - that's for your consultant to do." She asked me when I was seeing him - this was Thurs afternoon- and I said the appointment was on Monday. She just nodded and made some notes so off we went.
After this me and dh went away for the weekend, did lots of walking, stayed in a fairly remote place, even had sex (!). Came back on the Sunday night and I read my notes. Did some investigating on the internet and started getting a bit scared about everything I read about plac. praev.
Rang my midwife and she told me to go to hosp immediately and an hour later I had a venflon in my hand , a steroid injection in my bum and was told I would have to stay the rest of the pregnancy in hospital as I could start bleeding at any time and it was a very serious condition. Anyway, had a miserable last 2 months, then had dd, everything with birth (c-section) went brilliantly and we were happy as larry.
However, speaking to the midwives on the antenatal ward before the birth, they were horrified that I hadn't been refrred to my consultant immediately after the scan, as the baby and I had been in danger, esp when you think what could have happened while dh and I were away that weekend.
Made a complaint to the hospital about 1)brusqueness of sonographer and 2)lack of immediate referral. Two months later had a meeting with the senior radiographer who said that the sonographer was entirely correct to do as she had done (apart from the being rude bit), i.e. not advise me that my condition was potentially life-threatening, because I wasn't bleeding at the time. They said they might consider changing their policy in future, and I would be informed and consulted.
Anyway, 9 months has now passed since that meeting and I've heard diddly squat. I've waited until now because the hospital was moving premises and I wanted the dust to settle there, plus I also got preoccupied with dd and it didn't seem as important. However, dh has been pressing me to get going on the complaint again and seek a satisfactory solution.
All I want, I've decided, is that the radiography dept. are more sympathetic in future and that they act appropriately if something like this is diagnosed during a scan, i.e. advise the woman to seek a consultation immediately. What if I'd missed my appointment on the Monday? What if I hadn't been curious and looked on the internet on the Sunday? I've drafted out a letter saying I hope they haven't forgotten me and I'll be taking the complain further if I don't hear anything very soon.
Do I have a case? Or should I just be grateful I didn't bleed and dd and me are OK?