I’m taking a small hand luggage sized suitcase then a separate bag for snacks /chargers/anything that’s a quick grab rather than a prepackable essential. I’ve heard women have to carry baby and bags out themselves so if I have a wheely suitcase I don’t have to worry about struggling carrying hold bags and a baby (especially as the car seat will be in the car!)
Honestly you don’t need half as much as you think, I packed 2 big bags last time with things I thought I needed, turns out I bought so much unnecessary crap that was never touched and my husband had to go and grab bits I’d forgotten! I ended up staying in 3 days last time (hoping to be discharged straight from labour ward this time)
Pads and nappies are the most important thing. Shower gel and a flannel is also important (I didn’t take any last time because I can’t shower in other people’s bathrooms, I just can’t do it, anxiety related problem) but it turns out they get you to wash your bits with a bowl nearly straight after labour (it’s a scary sight unfortunately, swelling you never knew could occur, nobody warned me) and they use your own shower gel for that and only provide hot water and basically kitchen roll if you don’t have them.
I didn’t wear a bra the entire time I was there, no point, there’s nothing to do but stay in bed and look after baby so as long as you have a button down nighty of some description you’ll be fine. And hair bobbles to bung your hair up. I took makeup last time for some bizarre reason, didn’t once leave my bag, you’ve got no mirror to put it on with anyway!
The food you get at hospital is plenty (I found it too much and actually gave a lot of my leftovers to my husband) so don’t worry about food (except for during labour)
Bring a book/kindle/charger for your phone, it’s tremendously boring in hospital, you will have a LOT of free time, especially now there’s no visitors in postnatal. Oh and if you have to stay in try and get a window bed, I went stir crazy and I could actually see outside, I dread to think what it would have been like without the sunlight/outside view.