18 weeks pregnant. Can't get through to doctor or midwife.
Having extension done. DH is about to stop all the work as builders keep coming in the house and can't guarantee my safety. All suppliers have closed down so work has slowed right down, the house is not weather tight, we have no kitchen, and we've got a 2 year old to look after as well.
Looking at having to have the house like this for the foreseeable future, and if the restrictions continue, I cannot continue living in the house like this. I need a safe, clean, warm house with a kitchen, and the house is currently none of those things. I can't face the idea of having a newborn in the state thats it's currently in.
Only possible option we have is to move in with the in laws at the other end of the country. Would only go if after 2 weeks of us in isolation resulted in no symptoms etc. No other family nearby. Can't rent somewhere as we've both taken paycuts to avoid being furloughed. All savings tied up with the work to the house.
Can I change where my antenatal care is, and where I potentially give birth? Even if it's a completely different county? It's breaking me even writing this. I don't want to leave my house. But it's just not safe. The state it's in was meant to be temporary but we've been like this for two weeks and now it's looking like it's going to stay like this indefinitely. I don't know what to do.