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Starting maternity leave earlier than planned?

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Serenity05 · 01/04/2020 10:36

I'm 32+4. I was planning on working until 16th April, taking two weeks' annual leave, then going on maternity leave from the first week of May, when I will be 37 weeks. However, like many others, I am now working from home and struggling to look after my DS(4) at the same time. I'm feeling incredibly stressed, I can't concentrate fully on either work or my son, I cried yesterday because I felt so awful and I just want this all to be over.

So I'm considering asking if I can bring my leave forward, so I finish work at the end of next week and then start mat leave at 36 weeks. I don't want to start too early because I don't want to waste time I could be spending with my baby at the other end BUT a) DS was born at 37 weeks so there's a high chance this baby will come early as well and b) there's a possibility I will need to deliver early anyway because the baby is currently measuring just below the 10th centile. I have a follow-up growth scan booked in for the 16th to see how she's getting on. The worry over this is not helping my stress levels.

WWYD in my situation?

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Pineapplebaby · 01/04/2020 10:54

For the sake of a week or two, I personally would look to bring forward your start date if your work are ok with that. It sounds like it’d be far more beneficial to you now rather than at the end.
Good luck to you x

ThinkPink71 · 01/04/2020 14:04

Just bring it forward. You sound like you would feel so much better in doing so xx

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