Might be a little long so apologise in advance.
Me and my oh had ivf in January because of male factor issues. We luckily got pregnant on our first go and we are unbelievably happy. My oh has always been a drinker but he really cut down the last two years because of being told by our doctor that it may have contributed to his sperm count being low.
We both quit smoking too but he smoked a vape.
Before the ivf he totally cut out any alcohol and did really well with his diet.
But now it seems I’m pregnant he thinks he can go back to drinking whenever. I feel like I’m nagging, I mean he works 2 jobs, does every job that needs doing round the house when he’s got
Time. Has looked after me while I’ve been sick and tired. He’s a really lovely Person and going to be a great dad, it’s just his drinking that I can’t stand. He drinks about 4 cans every few days but during quarantine he’s been drinking nearly every night. Because of morning sickness I can’t bare the smell so he sleeps on the sofa, his diet has gone out the window and he’s back to eating absolute rubbish food. He smells awful to me and I know it’s because of the pregnancy hormones but I can’t help but worry I’ll feel like this through the whole pregnancy and it’ll grate on me. I’m also worried he’ll carry on with his drinking when the baby is here.