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Heartbroken and Alone

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MK1901 · 25/03/2020 07:43

Hi, I’m in desperate need of advice. I’m 35 weeks pregnant tomorrow and due to be induced next Thursday as DS is tiny. He was semi planned and everything seemed fantastic! I got the news about the induction last Monday, boyfriend seemed so happy and nervous. By Thursday, he didn’t return home. Friday he tells me he doesn’t love me any more and can’t do the relationship but will still be there for the baby. He’s stayed out leaving me in the house alone with no way to contact him as he doesn’t have a phone and I’ve since found out he’s been lying about where he is which isn’t unusual for him as he’s a compulsive liar. I’m assuming he’s with another woman and the pain his killing me. We were happy, we were excited, everything seemed fine! I’m so confused and broken as to how he could do this to me 2 weeks before our baby boy is born. I don’t want to do this alone, I’m scared but I can’t face him being there pretending everything is okay supporting me through labour when I know deep down he’s slept with someone else. How do I get through this? What do I do? 😞

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totallyaddictedtocarbs · 25/03/2020 08:49

I didn't want to read and run.

Although your heart is breaking right now, in the long run this will be the best thing for you and your DS. Becoming a new mum is hard enough without a compulsive liar thrown into the mix.

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Liverbird77 · 25/03/2020 08:56

He doesn't deserve you!
I am do sorry you are facing this.

Kezmum14 · 25/03/2020 09:04

Do you think he’s just really scared? Not that that gives him an excuse!! He doesn’t deserve you and although you’re heart is breaking now, you will get through it :) you’ll have your baby In Your arms soon. Take care x

MK1901 · 25/03/2020 09:08

It’s really difficult because he was only here yesterday collecting things to take away with him, giving me a hug and saying things like ‘I can’t darling’ when I asked him to reconsider. He’s still today adamant that he’s not with another woman and would tell me if he was. Just don’t know what to think, we have a week left until our bundle of joy is here, I know he’s scared too. Maybe on the day when reality hits he might realise, I can’t afford to get my hopes up though 😞 x

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