For nappies there are several facebook groups where you can buy and sell pre loved nappies. The nappy lady is really good, and you can rent a kit from her to try reusable nappies if you're not sure they're right for you. I did this, it was really helpful. There are a few different types of nappies, but the nappy lady website is very good at helping you understand the different terminology and products. She also has videos of how to put them on which I found really helpful.
I tended towards all in one nappies, where you have the fabric nappy and a waterproof outer layer all in one unit. I also preferred birth to potty nappies, that is nappies that can be adjusted up or down in size so your child wont outgrow them. I found that the key was being organised enough to get the wash on before I went to bed, and the nappies on the airer to dry first thing in the morning when I came downstairs. Not sure if it's just me but it seems most people end up with a bit of a stash of nappies, there are some very collectable designs out there, and if you buy second hand you can build up a bit of a collection, to allow you to not have to wash them so often.
With the reusable wipes, we love them, they are incredibly useful. We have cheeky wipes, we keep a box in ds's room, one in our room for dd and one downstairs. I find them all over the house though because they make such handy little cloths for wiping faces and cleaning hands as well as for nappy time.
We make up a wet solution for ours using a bit of mild baby shampoo, and some essential oils, mixed with water. Ours live in Tupperware type tubs, with lids, to keep them moist. We have a second container the same size to chuck them in after use and then when full we wash. I have enough wipes to manage doing 2 washes a week, with 2 kids in nappies. When out and about I do use regular wipes, just for convenience, but even just using them at home has saved us buying as many wipes, and hopefully saved the planet a bit too.
They can wash at 40 degrees, and will stand washing at 60 if you wish. They dont need to be dried if you're planning to keep them pre wetted, just straight back into the box out of the washing machine, with some fresh solution. While the wipes are in the washing machine I run our storage boxes through the dishwasher to get rid of any nasty stuff. Our wipes are coping admirably with all that a toddler and a 4 month old can throw at them.