Episiotomy first time round, more likely to tear second time round?

[AlmostAlwyn]

I had an episiotomy with my first birth, which I'm not entirely convinced was necessary now. I was ambiguous about it but they asked if I wanted "a small cut, or a biiiiiiig tear?", which I don't think was a very balanced way of putting it. I wasn't sure, but agreed under pressure. I didn't really experience crowning/birthing the head as shortly after the episiotomy my son came out all at once.

It healed no problem, no further issues, etc.

But does this mean I'm more likely to tear in that place in my second birth? I would say no to an offered episiotomy this time round, but has the previous cut weakened the tissue somehow? I'm currently doing the Positive Birth Company's digital pack and am looking forward to breathing my baby out if possible!

Did you have an episiotomy with a previous birth then no tearing in a subsequent birth? Tell me it's possible!

and, on balance, one of the lesser problems to have

Well that depends. Mine hasn’t healed and am still in near constant pain two years later.

OP I have been told by my consultant that tearing and trauma is very unpredictable - I think the truth is you might re-tear along your episiotomy or you might not. In answer to your question it is certainly possible!

Epesiotomy first time, third degree rear second. Both healed well fortunately.