D'you know, this is why I love Mumsnet!!!
You get thrown a curve ball like this and it rocks your world and you don't know where to turn and suddenly, there online are loads of really lovely, lovely helpful people who've been there before and know just the right thing to say [warm, fuzzy emoticon].
Bless you all!
Now my initial shock has lessened I think I'm much more calm about it all. This baby is going to be part of our family early next year and will change our lives as irrevocably and wonderfully as our dd did almost five years ago. It would be great to go into parenthood with a guarantee of life time success and happiness but that just isn't available. Let's face it, not many of us have hit the teenage years yet - I don't suppose I'll be off mumsnet then!!!
Eddas - loved the 'betting on a horse' analogy - I'll remember that one I'm also a bit confused by the up or down stats thing but I got where you were coming from completely. Rightly or wrongly I think I'll chill out a bit if they say the scan looks okay.
Thomcat - you should know that I read all your posts on KatyH's thread and I found them hugely useful Really appreciate your offer of help/support and your openness. THANK YOU XXX
Oh and bore da, Peachy - that's about my limit as we've only been here for two years. That and, ffa pob and archfarchnad which seem to have stuck in my brain for unknown reasons!
Lots of love and thanks to you all
xxx HM