I had a miserable time breastfeeding my son, but kept going for 15 months for various reasons... mostly guilt and pressure. I'm pregnant again, horrified at the idea of going through all that again and have been googling like crazy, which is where I came across some info on D-Mer (dysphoric milk ejection reflex). I am very sure that this is what I was experiencing, but I can't find any advice about how to deal with it, other than 'get support'.
Has anyone had useful help with this? Or is it just a case of a midwife telling you that your feelings are perfectly normal blah blah blah breast is best, get on with it?
Can you tell I'm bitter?!