At my last scan appointment with a consultant she told me that my baby was breech. It was also breech last time I went two weeks prior and I'm not sure how long the baby has been in this position for.
I have an appointment in 3 weeks time and if the baby is still breech, I have to decide on whether I want an ECV or C-Section.
Due to my baby measuring slightly on the small side, the consultant also wants me admitted to hospital for 37 weeks and induced.
She warned me that having an ECV is uncomfortable and isn't always successful and in that case I will have to go for a C-Section anyway. On the other hand, it might work and then I could go on to have a normal birth.
Of course in 3 weeks, I have a bit of time where the baby might move naturally, but I'm not so sure as s/he has been like this for weeks! And in which case, if it doesn't move, I want to mentally prepare myself of what I think the best decision is for me.
Originally I felt quite calm about birth, keeping an open mind, but wanting to do most of it at home and go into hospital at the last minute so to speak! And take whatever pain relief/medication I feel I need at the time. I was pretty chilled at the idea of simply going with the flow and listening to my body. So being told I will have to have a date booked in (breached or not), I am finding quite scary due to not particularly wanting this medical intervention (I am a great believer that the baby should come when its ready - within reason). And also I have heard being induced can lead to a more painful and longer labour, so my original plan will be out of the question.
Having thought about all this, I am tempted to side for the C-section. To save putting my body (and mind) through it all - like having an ECV, being induced and then having to go on to have a C-Section anyway if not successful....
But I am also aware it is major surgery so don't want to just opt for it lightly and therefore weighing up my options!
What I do like about having a planned C-Section is that the actual birth I assume is far less painful and lengthy. But the massive downside is the recovery process. I have family that will greatly help, but I am worried about how well it will all heal.
Caught in what is best to do! Wondering what your experiences are of ECV and C-Section. Have you had both a vaginal birth and a C-section - if so which one did you prefer?
Thanks for your help!