EMCS here, son ended up in NICU due to breathing difficulty (much higher risk of respiratory morbidity with CSecs) and sepsis - he died at 5 days old due to both his breathing issues from the birth and the sepsis being too much for him.
I wasnt allowed to see him until 8 hours post birth. That has to have been one of the hardest things surrounding the birth of my son. DH took photos for me when he was allowed to briefly see him.
I sat up all night passing those 8 hours by constantly recalling my son's cries as he was born and hand expressing milk and collecting it in tiny syringes for him. My milk came in just as easily as it did with my vaginal delivery with my first.
I was actually able to sit up and walk unaided after 5 hours of surgery but they wanted me to have breakfast and try to sleep before I was allowed down to NICU.
Anyway, I ended up being discharged 20 hours post surgery so I could follow my son up to different hospital. I wished I could have gone sooner, for 6 hours we were in different parts of the country as I wasnt allowed to be discharged straight away to follow him up.
That is the difficultly with a CSec, not being as mobile and so not being able to be by my son's side for most of his first day. I also had issues with trying to wee too, the catheter caused some damage.
The actual cut was painful and I did have to be slow but the next day I did manage to do 3 solo trips from a ward they had let me rest on when I first arrived at the new hopsital to the new NICU carrying a load of bags when I was told I wasnt allowed to wait for assistance to move our things and I had to move it now. No damage was done and it wasnt a great pain in doing it.
3 weeks postpartum I was running regular 5ks with no issues.
Now I am pregnant again and have that conflict of whether to go for a ERCS or a VBAC. I am so unsure.