Miscarriage Aftermath

[Ibaadsmummy]

Hi everyone just wanted some advice from people with similar situations I had a miscarriage 30th January stoped bleeding within a week but still showing pregnant on tests. I'm suffering from anxiety and cant seems to forget and move on I just want to be like how I was 4 weeks ago. I keep worrying about never having another baby and wondering what went wrong since my first pregnancy was perfectly normal.I really want to start trying again but cant figure out when to. But now I am obsessing some please give me advice to help n move on n take things slowly

I’m sorry.

It can take a while for tests to show as negative and then you should ovulate again within a couple of weeks of that happening. You say your pregnancy was perfectly normal - did you have tests to see what happened?

Hey yes my first pregnancy was perfectly normal 2 years ago this time I miscarried at 6 weeks no checks or anything started bleeding Thursday 30th scan on sunday 2nd they said incomplete miscarriage stoped bleeding buy monday. I just really wana move on but am obsessing about trying again as it's the only way I feel I will move on from this. Am I being silly and selfish. Since I stopped bleeding shall I start trying even if tests still show positive

I was told to wait to my next cycle. And leave it 3 wks before testing. If test is still positive go back to GP as it may mean you haven,t fully got rid of everything.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

I had a MMC a year and a half after my first (problem free pregnancy).

It took five weeks after my surgery for me to get a negative test, so it can take a while. I preferred to wait until I got a negative, just so there was no confusion around dating. I conceived the first month after, and everything has been problem free so far.

Lastly - I genuinely don't mean this to sound harsh, but: 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in miscarriage. That means most women with a family of two or three kids will have had one at some point. I know very few women who haven't. What you're going through is very painful, but it's a also very normal. A shitty normal, but normal nonetheless. There is no reason to think your next pregnancy won't be as successful as your first.

Thank you for your advice and support xxx