7+1 and need a hand hold

[Chanel05]

I'm 7+1 and I've had severe nausea and sore boobs for weeks. Yesterday my nausea totally disappeared and today my boobs are no longer sore. I had a mmc last year and booked a scan after having exactly the same loss of feelings and the baby had stopped developing. I'm in absolute bits and stressing because I feel like it's happened again. I went to the doctors who said just to act pregnant and my family are just saying believe I am. I want to more than anything - I started ttc two years ago but the mmc tore me into pieces for 7 months of depression and anger. I just don't know what to do or feel or how to get on.

here for a hand hold. I don't know where you are based but where i am you can self refer to the EPAU for a scan and if you've had a mc, they offer a reassurance scan. Might be worth a try, to give you a bit of reassurance

My epu said I wouldn't be allowed one (even though I was told I could when I was miscarrying last year) I have a scan booked for 2.

Another hand hold. And I’ve been there. It was a long journey but I have two children now. Keep calm with lots of deep breathing until 2. Let us know how you get on xxx

i've been there too, such a horrible time and the wait is literally torture. Hang in there and i've got everything crossed for positive news

I had days like this in early pregnancy. Around 6/7 weeks I woke DH up at 3am once in a complete state because my boobs didn’t hurt anymore. By the next afternoon they were sore again. It happened again a couple of times and I also had days where my nausea went and I could eat anything. The symptoms always returned but it still panicked me every time. Early pregnancy is so tough and I was completely unprepared for it. I felt like I was just existing, wishing the days away. I hope your scan goes well this afternoon.

I feel so nervous. I'm just praying that it's good news and I'm being irrational.

Good luck for your scan.

early pregnancy is fraught with worry, especially when you've had a previous loss. it really does make you question every little twinge and body change. Hopefully all is well

Everything is fine!! Nice normal heartbeat 💓