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Miscarriage and absolutely devastated

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Anon9990 · 27/01/2020 20:32

Hello! First time poster and not up to date with all the lingo on here. Not sure if this is the right forum either so apologies if not.
My partner and I were ttc for 2 years and were at the start of our fertility investigations. While at the gp for what I thought was a uti I was over the moon to discover we were pregnant. Our happiness was short lived as 3 weeks later I suffered a miscarriage. I knew as soon as I saw the blood it was not good and knew that my pregnancy would not continue. We were both devastated.
We are now 4 weeks on and while I think I’ve coped okay the last 3 days I’ve done nothing but cry at the slightest little thing.
I suppose I’m here because i need to let this out, I don’t want to get upset to my partner as I don’t want to upset him. I feel so alone and isolated. I also am dreading my first period I know it will destroy me. I don’t know if I can cope with the heartache of trying to conceive anymore.
Sorry for the long post just needing to let it out

OP posts:
SproutMuncher · 27/01/2020 20:36

I’m so sorry, what an indescribably cruel thing to happen. I don’t have any advice I’m afraid but sending you lots of love Flowers

Backhometothenorth · 27/01/2020 20:37

So sorry you are going through this. What a cruel thing miscarriage is. Take time to grieve and be kind to yourself Flowers

snch · 27/01/2020 20:39

Sorry I haven't got any advice but I'm so sorry you had to go through this xx

Anon9990 · 27/01/2020 20:46

Thanks for all of your kind words it means a lot ❤️

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Ttcbn1 · 27/01/2020 20:47

Hi, I am so sorry for your loss 😞 I started having a miscarriage this morning and have felt beside myself all day. Don’t want to eat, sleep, or talk to anyone. Physically and emotionally in so much pain. Really hoping you manage to conceive and get your happy ending in the future. Xxx

avocadont · 27/01/2020 20:48

I'm so sorry OP, sending love. x

Anon9990 · 27/01/2020 20:51

I am so so sorry. It really is the most horrendous feeling. There are no words 😥 I hope you are ok. Thanks for your wishes- even more heartfelt considering the trauma you are going through just now. Please don’t hesitate to message me if you need to talk ❤️

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Jordan2008 · 27/01/2020 21:16

Hi, so sorry for your loss it's not a nice or easy thing to go through. I have been through four now and nothing can prepare you for it. I have no advice that will help because I know we all deal with it in our own way and so will you and partner. Take each day as it comes and grieve your own way... dont let people tell you otherwise thinking of you x

BunnytheBlueWhale · 27/01/2020 21:19

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. Sometimes you get the short straw but you will be ok. Seek help if you need it. Speak to your GP. Take time off work if you can. There are some v supportive TTC after loss threads on MN when you want to get back to TTC or even just for some support as there are people on those who take breaks.

DrWAnker · 27/01/2020 21:23

However you feel about it, that's Ok. Some days will be alright and some are going to be wrap up in the duvet and want to disappear.
Just be kind to yourself and seek help if you need to. I'm so sorry this has happened to you, it's a horrible thing to have to go through, but you will get through xx

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