Previous miscarriage in October, currently 9+2 weeks pregnant

[abigail2512]

My heads all over the place at the minute! Had a miscarriage at 12 weeks in october, got told there wasnt actually a foetus there it was just the sac and I wasnt getting proper pregnancy symptoms! I'm stressing that when I go for the scan at 12 weeks there will be nothing there, every time i get slight niggle i worry, I check the paper everytime I go to the toilet. I feel 10x worse this pregnancy which has to be a good sign right? Theres no signs of any sort of bump yet I just look a bit fatter and I'm panicking the same is going to happen again

Hi

For what its worth, you wont have a bump now so don't worry about that!

Can you book a private viability scan? They are under £100 and would provide some reassurance.

I know what it's like to worry. I am 20 weeks now, have had 3 scans (all fine and one tomorrow) but I never stop checking the toilet paper or worrying when I go to the toilet. The worry never ends but do try and be kind to yourself.

I got pregnant three months after a missed miscarriage too. Anxiety was awful and felt the same way as you do now.Hope all goes well this time

I had a MMC followed by a MC last year and I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant. I am still very anxious - I get worried before every scan - I know how you feel. It's very hard. All I can say is, everyday takes you a step closer. I still have dark days, but they are getting fewer and further between. I really wanted this baby, but to do so there was no other option but to expose myself to my worst nightmare over again. All I can say is pregnancy tests are not your friends - in my MC I was testing everyday from day 1 and it assures you of nothing - just leaves you a neurotic mess. Just know that the odds are stacked in your favour, everyday takes you closer, and once you start feeling movements (I just did this last week), you'll feel a lot more reassured.

I wish you all the best x

Oh and my symptoms have been terrible - then virtually disappeared - then come back - then faded. Around 12 weeks they subsided massively and I got really scared. It's completely normal for that to happen, so don't panic if it happens to you.

I found out new years day that I was pregnant I'm now 8+1, after my last misscarige at 13weeks I'm so paroind with every twich always looking after wiping too. I know they say all symptoms are a good sign but this morning I didn't feel sick so I'm kinda worried again that is gonna be a repeat, is it true that symptoms can come and go??? It's hard for me to get pregnant as ive got POCS I've done all possible things right this time too I've quit smoking so I can just have my 2nd child I'm so scared any advice??? Thank you.

@MelRiley - Yes - my symptoms have been very up and down too

@SnoozyLou
thank you just put my mind at that little ease.