How do I tell my mum not to come over until she is invited? I'm 37 weeks pregnant with baby no.3. With previous DC my mum has been here when I've got home from the hospital. She has a key to my home so she just let herself in without us knowing and was sitting in the lounge when we got home. I understand people are itching to see the baby but we really would like some time to settle and for our other children to bond without my mum coming in and sitting clutching the baby all day. She isn't the type to offer help either, last time she was sitting in the lounge and said to my husband "are you gonna put the bloody kettle on" we was both so tired after being up all night and just wanted to get into bed. I've told others that until our other children have had time with the baby we aren't having anyone over and they have been very accepting of that but my mum thinks that excludes her. Shea already asked my sister in law when she will be coming over 🤦🏻♀️