Advice Please!

[Dex87]

I need some advice/support please.

I found out about a week ago that I’m pregnant, I’m around 12 weeks, which is a complete surprise (I’ve had no symptoms) and I am scared to tell my husband.

We have a LO already, and although we haven’t really spoke about extending, he’s said one is enough a couple of times.

He’s not a horrible man or unapproachable, it’s me that hasn’t got the courage to open up or say what I’m thinking or feeling.

Any words of advice?

So sorry you feel like that OP, but I can't help but think if you can't open up to your husband... who can you open up to? It sounds really sad that you're scared to tell him what I hope will be really happy news?

Do you want the baby? If not, and he's spoken about having a baby previously, I could understand the worry but he needs to know. It's just a bit confusing if you think you want the baby and he's not shown any signs of not wanting another child.

I would imagine he would be really upset by not knowing

Sorry just reread the post, was he serious about only wanting one? If so you both should have had a discussion and made necessary precautions to only have one (vasectomy etc)

Just remember that nobody can force you to keep or abort the baby, your body, your choice.

I'd literally take what he's said with a pinch of salt unless you know 100% that he actually means it And tbh sorry but your 12 week pregnant already so bit too late now anyway just tell him your pregnant
How many times when asked if we wanted another baby my DH would say oh god no two is enough and even i have said it myself even though we wasn't stopping it from happening. I think it's just something people generally say but not actually mean most of the time.