I'll keep. Brief as I can
I was always told Without fertility treatment I wouldn't have kids.. Bad endo. Complications from Burst appendix blocking tubes as the stuff went everywhere and pcos. So have never taken precautions except condoms.
With ds we had treatment.. He's 14
Single for. Many yrs after and then met dh. We both knew we wanted a child.. Had 1 each.
Had treatment and ended up with dd..
We were so lucky
Last march unexpectedly I fell pregnant with no intervention but mc in April. Was gutted but my head was in a spin as to how we'd even managed to conceive (dh has low count too but not drastic)
Low and behold before next AF I'd fallen again.. I have no idea even now we still can't believe it. In fact it's made it hard to bond with the unborn baby even now at 36w..
No wee really need to be careful as its mind boggling. I don't feel I can cope with any hormonal contraception.. I struggle with hormones as it is.
We don't enjoy sex with condoms
DH has said he'd get the snip if I wanted him to but I don't know as that's really final. And I wouldn't 2ant to be the person that ultimately decides that
He's happy to go with whatever but I have no idea.