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questioning paternity of baby.. Need advice

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Penny12355 · 28/12/2019 22:58

I have definitly posted about this before.. but alot has changed since then, I am no longer with my ex fiance due to physical violence not that long ago. But for some reason now it still lingers in my head especially now that were broke up for some reason.. I would hate to keep him in my life if he wasnt even the dad if that makes sense, but to be completely honest I would rather my ex fiance be the dad because I know hes realy good with children and a good dad even though he was a dick to me and to be honest I dont know the other guy to well and we havent spoke since..

But anyway going back to april me and him broke up for a good while and I was single and stupidly slept with someone on a night out, now before anyone judges I never usually do this! The guy was a guy I was messaging back and forth a bit but I wasnt that interested in him and I got drunk one night and we didnt use any protection or anything.. this was the 25th of may.. (my last period was the 11th of may) I have long cycles of 33/34 days, then the next day i panicked and went and got the Mornin after pill (12 hours later) then on the 1st of june I had a bleed and it lasted for 3 days I had to use pads.. so then on the 9th,14th and 18th of june I done pregnancy tests just to make sure and they all came back negative, and in june I got back with my boyfriend (ex) on the 3rd of june and we had sex everyday in june maybe apart from a few days, it wasnt until the 26th of June I got my first positive and it said 2-3 weeks, I then done another test on the 29th of June and it also said 2-3 weeks, then on the 3rd of July it just changed to 3+.. I then went and got an early scan on the 17th of july and they told me I was 6 weeks.. 6 weeks plus 1 it was measuring at, then another scan on the 5th of august and it was saying 9 weeks aswell so every scan I have got has always went back to my last bleed on the 1st of june.. also my due date has never changed it has always stayed at 7th of march, can anyone give me advice?? I'm like 99.9 percent sure it is my ex fiances and not the guy from 25th of may but I'm just terrified incase she comes soon and she looks fuck all like him or somethin and its panicking me a bit 😂 thank you for reading

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Thoughtlessinengland · 29/12/2019 05:20

Sorry this is the third time you’ve posted this and th advice has always been the same. There was even a thread about this recently with lots of replies - what else do you want from this thread now?

Thoughtlessinengland · 29/12/2019 05:22

Like this thread - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3780119-questioning-paternity-of-baby-Need-advice

Are you not liking the replies and wanting to try newer threads?

MiniGuinness · 29/12/2019 05:56

No one is judging you for having a one night stand. We are all fucking judging you for starting the same thread over and over again. Why does it matter, neither have to go on birth certificate.

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