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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnancy after miscarriage

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Remily1 · 21/12/2019 12:09

I have never posted on anything like this before but feel like I need some advice. Me and my husband lost our first baby a few months ago. We found out during our first scan that the baby had no heart beat, this came as a complete shock to us both. I had no pain, no bleeding no inclination at all something had gone wrong. My little bump was most certianly coming in too. We were both completely heart broken. We both decided not to go back on contraception and just see how things go, well I took a test a couple of days ago and we are pregnant again. I am completely mentally preparing myself that we are going to loose the baby again, although I am over the moon we have been given another chance I can't shake that horrible feeling. I am over analysing every twinge or symptom or lack of symptoms. Does anyone have any advice on this or been through it before, my husband doesn't want to tell anyone about the pregnancy until we have the all clear on the scan, which I understand but I feel like I need a bit of extra support this time round incase we loose the baby again.

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Boymummy3 · 21/12/2019 12:14

My advice dont look into every symptom or lack of symptoms as you will drive yourself nuts I never got any symptoms with my first pregnancy and many women don't either.. I've had 2 successful pregnancies and a mmc plenty of chemicals and pregnant with my 3rd at 35 week.. Having a mc is not a nice experience but unfortunately these things happen and we can't stop them from happening. (if only we could it would be alot better) Only thing I could suggest if it would put yours and your dh mind at ease is to book an early private scan? They say a heartbeat should be seen around 7/8 weeks I know the wait is awfull but not alot more you can do. Try and relax as much as you can x

Remily1 · 21/12/2019 12:15

Thank you so much for your advice, I think a private scan would be a good idea. I will have a look into it. Xx

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