@Qwerty1984Sorry for borrowing your post.
@LolaLollypop @PlentyofToys @CheesePleaseLoueese I wonder if I should ask to see kidney specialist or a urologist instead. Who did you see during the pregnancy and after birth?
I had a scan with sonographer where she said the left kidney bigger, brighter and possible of cysts or dialated. Second scan few days later at the Pediatrician has identified similar thing but no mentioning of cysts, with diagnose of possible dyplastic kidney. We didn't know what was dyplastic kidney means so didn't ask if he saw cysts and how many. Only goolge later found out it means either Multicystic Dyplastic kidney (MCDK) or polycystic dysplastic kidney. And either case, kidney has cysts. So I'm not sure how did the dr identify it's dyplastic kidney instead of hydronephrosis (My understand is hydronephoris is dialated kidney and can be fixed after birth).
The bad kidney does show very large (23x13x13) vs. the good kidney (17x.10x10). Could it be because it's very large and identify as MCDK? I did ask for what is the average kidney size for 20 weeks to be, but noone has given the straight answer. I'm worrying that the good kidney is also larger than normal. 
The dr also worries about Down Syndrome risk. Hence 3rd scan at the obstetrician for the heart and further diagnose. Is there a high link between Down Syndrome and Kidney dyplastic? We opted for NIPT test because of this (will need to pay privately), instead of amnio test (I want to avoid risk of miscarriage).
I just wonder if I should ask to see the kidney specialist instead so that in case they diagnose it wrong and left the still functioning kidney not treated too long after birth. And the good kidney needs to be checked also for 100% functioning? I have heard several case where they thought it was cysts during pregnancy but turned out not to be after birth.
I think the plan for now is to for me to see the obstetrician next week, then maybe further scan during pregnancy with the pediatrician to monitor the kidneys and growth (not sure if it will be 4 or 6 weeks in between).
I have heard that at later stage of pregnancy if the baby abdomen shows too big (because of the kidney?), we should opt for C-section or induce earlier? Has it ever mentioned in your later scan?
Thanks