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So bored on first week of maternity leave (just a rant)

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SaraKatie · 20/12/2019 00:32

Just a rant really. I’m 38+4, on my first week of maternity leave and I’m so bored. I really wish I was in work, but according to the law here you have to take your leave two weeks before your due date, and mine is the 30th.

I can’t do a lot of the really active things that I’d usually do, like a spin or xfit class, but I have been keeping busy. I did a c section class (my baby is measuring very big and I’ve been told I might have to have one), did a painting, finished my Christmas shopping, been to my doctor’s appointment, met a friend for lunch, yet I’m still climbing the walls with boredom. I can’t seem to get to sleep at night until 1am at the earliest, and I’m woken by my husband going to work at 7am and nothing will let me get back to sleep. I don’t nap (never could). To be honest, I’m not even sure I’m tired. Lying around watching Netflix is not for me. I’d have thought I’d be glad to rest up at this point. I’ve been carrying a baby that is the size of most people’s full-term babies for about 8 or 9 weeks (estimated 8lb 8oz at 35 weeks 😱), but yet I don’t want to rest and relax. I’m just fed up! I’ve to move house next week at 39 weeks and honestly I’m actually glad I’ll be so busy. I feel insane!

On another topic I’d also quite like to smother my snoring, grunting husband who keeps shaking the entire bed with his movements beside me! 😂

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MrsHampshire2017 · 21/12/2019 12:06

I could have written this post two weeks ago after the first week of leave. I had a total identity crisis and cried daily because my job was a big part of my self worth. The second week was a little easier as I found a new routine.

I’m a week on the other side and have a list of things I wish I’d done. Feel free to steal this because trust me, as the larger leaky part of a symbiotic pair, you will look back at this time with a smile. It’s like a more important hen do cos your life will never be the same:

  • go for a romantic meal with hubby
  • lots of showers
  • hair cut
  • pedicure
  • facial
  • have a 2 hour bath
  • see all of your friends
  • see all of the films
  • cuddle the snorer - and try not to kill him for it during a 5am feed!
MrsHampshire2017 · 21/12/2019 12:08

(But seriously, when the baby gets here your life will change. Sometimes it will be hell. Most of the time it’s definitely worth it.)

Velveteenfruitbowl · 21/12/2019 12:31

Can’t you read a book? Or write a book?

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