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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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Fergu · 19/12/2019 02:03

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I am 27 and my partner is 40. Anyway we got together 4/5 months ago through him leaving his wife. Which we never started the relationship till a month after they split. Everything was fantastic untill his ex found out and been cause so much hell for us. Anyway he said he wanted a baby and so did i but felt it a bit early. So i stop taking conception as we didnt think i would fall pregnant so fast! I am not 7 weeks pregnant and he said the timings is not right and asking me to abort our baby. The baby we both decided to have. About 3 weeks ago he went on to say about an abortion but then a week later he decided he wanted this baby and took me pram shopping. I had an appointment for the abortion clinic yesterday but got me to cancel it but now wants me to rebook. We have obvious jumped in too fast and now saying he wants spaces. ( he got depression i think) but then i was stay at my house for few days then he like aww i miss you, why dont you bring clothes over ...

He then told his ex that i am pregnant so noone else tells her but she is hurt and pissed off as she cant have kids, which is a shame. My boyfriend has a grown up child. So he now wants space and me to abort our baby and still tells he loves me but needs to find him self. I am feeling confused.

Thanks

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cakeandchampagne · 19/12/2019 02:15

It is your body and your choice.
Regardless of what you decide, it doesn’t sound like he will be around.
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Mintjulia · 19/12/2019 02:18

you Have jumped in too early haven’t you.

I think you need to disregard your boyfriend who at best is too immature to rely on, and at worst is a selfish abusive moron.

You need to decide if you want this baby. If you are happy & prepared to live as a single mum , because that is the reality. Sorry.

sweetkitty · 19/12/2019 03:18

What a mess. Sounds like he’s totally messed up.

You have to decide what you want. Take him out the equation, are you happy to be a single mum, do you want to keep the baby and bring him/her up yourself.

The wanting/not wanting it sounds awful.

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/12/2019 03:26

You are making utterly foolish relationship choices. Deliberately getting pregnant five minutes into a new relationship with someone on the rebound.

Regardless, do you want a child? Without him. Do you want a child. If you do. Do. If you don't, terminate. Don't listen to hi,pm any more.

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