Worried about miscarrying

[MAJKER30]

Hi,

I miscarried at 6 weeks on the 30th of September and have just found out I’m pregnant again (5 weeks and 4 days) today. I was so excited the 1st time around and now I’m just filled with worry. I don’t have morning sickness and I didn’t last time and that worries me. I don’t want to rush to the doctors to start the midwife process as I’m worried about jinxing it. I only wanted to find out to ensure I didn’t drink over the Christmas period, otherwise I would’ve held off until I’d missed my second period.

I know no one can reassure me, but maybe someone can at least share an experience?

Both times I have conceived it’s not been on my most fertile days and when I’m kind of least expecting it. I have an app, but I didn’t want to be one of those people making sex into a schedule. I went with the “what will be will be attitude” and both times it’s happened the 1st time we’ve not used any contraception. I’m worrying because maybe doing it like that has caused an issue? Every gripe and pain I get today I’m worrying!

I thought the same and now I have a healthy baby. Please try not to worry.

If it is any consolation, my morning sickness didn't kick in until around 8 weeks. Everyone is different, I know it's easy to say (I still worry every day at 16 weeks) but try not to worry.

I was the same, it’ll be very hard to relax until you have your scan but just take each day as another day you’re still pregnant. My symptoms, including sickness, came and went which caused no end of worry!

I found this website useful, it gives statistics on the probability of a miscarriage - you’ll see it’s very low and if you’re like me can check each day and see your chances Improving:

datayze.com/miscarriage-chart.php

Thank you so much everyone. Much appreciated xx