Who could the dad be?

[ineedtochangethis18]

So I really need some help to calm my anxiety.

I had been seeing a guy in the summer, we slept together on10th July unprotected. We had an argument I ended up sleeping with my ex on 30th July, he never "finished" anywhere near me but still. I then found out I was pregnant on the 3rd of August, the line was really bold.
My last period was 26th June, my due date is 31st March so all the dates point back to being the 1st guy. My dates or measurements haven't changed once and I've had 4 scans. Is there ANY chance the second guy could be the dad?

Exceptionally unlikely

No, you wouldn't get a bold positive 4 days after conception.

I think it’s impossible it’s the second guy. You likely would have ovulated on the 10th July, assuming you have a 28 cycle. Also no way a test would be positive 5 days after intercourse with the other guy.

The quickest I've had a feint positive is 2 days before my period so 12 days afterward sex

I reckon there's more chance of winning Euromillions than it being you ex

I take it you'd rather your ex was the Dad?

I'd rather the guy I slept with first is the dad. My next period was due 26th July but I never noticed until a week later. So I would of been 5 weeks when I found out hence the bold line? I know it's probably not my exes but the worry keeps me up every night

I don’t think there is even the slightest chance it’s your ex. Barring some kind of bizarre medical anomaly. You would have had sex with him 4 days after your period was due even. It is not possible, don’t even worry about it.

Sounds like first guys but honesty is the best policy does he know you slept with your ex just incase you've got dates mixed up?

I haven't told him, my immediate reaction was it's his, I didnt really register the fact I had slept with my ex before. It's just as this pregnancy progresses my anxiety is through the roof. I want to tell him but don't want to break his heart

I don't see how it would help anyone to tell him. It is very very very unlikely to be the ex's (verging on impossible) and it will just upset him and destroy your relationship going forward. I know its dishonest but I don't think its fair on him to tell him.

Are you still with the first man?

Well we decided to just take things slowly, which is why I don't want to say anything if there's very little to no chance it's my exes

Almost certainly not your ex. The timing right for the man you are seeing. There is no way you would get a strong pos test only four days after sex, it would be pre implantation.

I do agree it's highly likely your bf and if you don't want to tell him unnecessarily could you do a secret dna with your ex to check?

You wouldn't get a + 4 days after conception