No judgement please. Guy A or B?

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I know i will never know 100% till baby is here and a DNA test will be done but i was just looking for some feedback on what people most likely think. I’ve looked at the conception calculators a few online and it does say conception most likely the 10th April. I just want people’s opinions.

My last period was the 25th March 2019 and i have a 30 cycle. I slept with guy A once on the 3rd April then guy B on the 5th/7th/8th/9th April. I took a pregnancy test on the 30th April clear blue which said (2-3 week since conception) I then had a tiny bleed on the 24th May which i went to the EPU and that date they measured me 7 weeks 6 days.

On the 17th June i had my 12 week scan which i measured 11 weeks 5 days so my due date is 1st January. I’m not looking for negative comments just abit of support on who people think is most likely guy. A DNA will be done when baby arrives like i’ve said and i’ve used calculators online.

If people have any knowledge and explanation i would really appreciate it and who do people most likely think, based on a 28/30 day cycle, Guy A or B? Also is a sperm life spam 5 or 7 days?

Guy B is my ex and since ending up with him on the 5th we have been back together since and he’s stuck by my side knowing the situation.

Any ladies due similar time know when the conceived ?

I would think it's almost certainly guy B. You had sex with him many more times, which increases the chances for a start, and at times closer to your probable ovulation date.

It really could be either. It depends when you ovulated that month. Cycle length doesn't dictate when you ovulate, so it really is anyone's guess.

Guy B more likely, A possible.

www.calculator.net/pregnancy-conception-calculator.html?ccalcmethod=due+date&dueDateDay=01%2F01%2F2020&cLastPeriodDay=06%2F27%2F2019&cCycleLength=28&cUltrasoundDate=12%2F04%2F2019&cUltrasoundWeek=22&cUltrasoundDay=6&printit=0&x=97&y=15

Guy B - you DTD many more times and also it would be more likely to be your ovulation day. Good luck, I hope you get the answer you want.

I'd say guy B too, I'd say you ovulated around the 9th/10th and you're dating scans match with guy B being the dad too

My due date is 1 jan this year, and I ovulated (tracked) on the 14th April, so very highly probable guy B

Hi I'm very similar the first day of my last period was 24th March and I am due on Xmas day. I conceived on the 5th April so I would say guy B is most likely. All the best! xx

Think I've just commented on your other thread maybe... But I agree guy B sounds more likely but unless you literally knew the day you conceived your not going to know without the dna which of course your going to do once baby is here it's nice your ex now partner is going to stick by you x

I see but still a slight change he could be because can’t sperm live 5-7 days in a women’s body and if i slept with him on the 3rd his sperm could possibly be still there by the 9/10? or is it very rare for it to survive that long x

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Hi slight chance, but the odds (and the logic) would say its guy B. I think the chances of the sperm lasting 5 days is extremely low.

according to online calculator due date 1/1/20 (which I am sure you have done loads of) :::::

Most probable conception dates: Apr 8, 2019 - Apr 12, 2019
Most probable dates of sexual intercourse that led to the pregnancy: Apr 5, 2019 - Apr 12, 2019

Possible conception dates: Apr 7, 2019 - Apr 17, 2019
Possible dates of sexual intercourse that led to the pregnancy: Apr 2, 2019 - Apr 17, 2019

So its possible it could be either, but if both guys are fertile and you have a cycle within 'Normal' range then Guy B is mor likely.

Best of Luck xx

thank you guys for replying and giving me some guidance x

BUMP

Hi OP, I don't think there's much more to add than what you've already been told by pp. Sperm can survive for seven days and given you slept with two different people within three days, whilst the likelihood may be more B than A, it's perfectly possible it could be A.

Its possible that its A but more likely to be B. Good luck whatever happens.

Agree with everyone else - it’s possible it was ONS A, but more likely Ex, now current bf B.

It must be driving you mad though. I hope you’ve been able to enjoy your pregnancy & are happy in your relationship. (Be careful not to stick with him just because he’s been decent about this, if you haven’t resolved the reason for your breakup).

Good luck with the birth 🌷

@BestOption Thank you and we have resolved the issue and everything’s been good a few hiccups nothing major. Just because there’s this doing. Only a few more weeks then my mind will be at rest x

That’s good. I hope it works out ok for you & that there’s a ‘happy ever after’ but don’t forget life is easier as a single parent than with a baby and a man child! Or abusive arse. Or even just with someone who doesn’t make you happy. Whether the baby is hus or not it’s YOUR choice whether to be with him or not! BEING unhappy IS a good enough reason to leave. Always.

Anyway, that said, I hope you have a lovely Christmas 🎄 and a good birth. Do let us know when the baby arrives! 😊

It doesn't matter how many times you DTD with guy B, it only takes 1 sperm to get pregnant. Going by the dates of last LMP and when you could of possibly ovulated it sounds as though it's more likely to be guy B, however sperm can live upto 7 days in the 'right conditions'.
It's great to hear your ex is being supportive knowing the circumstances. Not to long to wait- good luck !