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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Am I gonna be doing this alone??

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MamaChels · 01/12/2019 01:50

I feel pregnant when under a lot a stress. So it was a big shock when we found out that we was expecting. Myself and my partner have been together for almost 2 years now and I'm 7months pregnant. He wanted me to have a abortion but I could not bring myself to do physically or mentally so I made the decision that was right for me. He has been a little supportive but TBH not a lot, he has said he didn't want this baby and I'm concerned that he will not love her the way I will. We both have children with ex partner but he dose not see his childern not by his own choice. He has not been affectionate towards me or the little girl growning inside me and we don't see each other very often once or twice a week and on his day off work he would rather be else where then spend time with me. I have the feeling when our daughter is born I will be doing it alone or am I over thinking it ???

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ThatsNotMyMeerkat · 01/12/2019 01:54

He already has a child he doesn’t see, barely sees you as it is and has no interest in the pregnancy?
Yes, you will be doing it alone.

SparkleUK · 01/12/2019 08:36

You say not by his own choice - maybe he's scared to bond with a baby because he doesn't know how or thinks it will be the same this time?
Congratulations on your pregnancy though, I think you could maybe try and have a heartfelt talk with him about how you feel so you're not in limbo. At the end of the day, your happiness is the main thing and as long as you want and love your baby, then it's your decision.
It may well end up that you do it alone but how you feel is more important. Make sure if you can, you have some support around you from other areas and don't rely on him to be there, anything else is a bonus

KatherineJaneway · 01/12/2019 08:39

Yes you will be doing it alone I fear Flowers

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