Hi
Third pregnancy and the first since living in my inlaws house.
Due to money problems my husband says we really should tell the family now. Like tomorrow!!! I'm 4 weeks pregnant.... I hate telling the family too early. I feel uncomfortable with all the circus and also I'm always scared of having a miscarriage in the first trimester (it never happened but still).
I already feel stuck having to live in their house (thanks a lot Brexit...) but being pregnant and having a baby? The experience was always very personal. We were living in a different country even. Here they'll complain that I'm carrying my toddlers too much and it's bad for the baby 
and it's not the kind of family that I can breastfeed without moving to a different room or covering up. With a slightly older child was ok but a newborn feeds all the time!!!
Sorry guys... I just needed to vent somewhere 
I know it's not the end of the world but I'm quite private/shy. This was that thing that was nice and personal in our little husband/wife/kids world.
Thanks for listening