I've recently come out of a long term relationship and then got back in touch with my first bf from high school, we hit it off and decided to give things a go, fast forward a few weeks and I've found out I'm pregnant. There's no issue financially but we have only been together a few weeks and I just feel it's so soon to throw this into the mix...
He already has 2 children from previous relationships he is fighting for access to I have none.
This is just never a situation I wanted and I've always been so careful I seem to have been swept away and not given anything a second thought this time.
He knows and is happy to support whatever decision I make although I know if it was his choice we would have the baby.
I just don't know what to do, on the one hand I think would it be selfish of me to consider or have an abortion just because the timing and situation doesn't suit me as I always wanted to ideally be married or at least in a stable long term relationship first. The other side of me thinks that I do want children and what if this is is potentially my only chance. I just always thought if I was going to have a baby I wanted to give it the best life I could and I don't feel in a position for that especially given the amount of time I've been with the father.....help!